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She doesn’t expect to learn everything at once, and she doesn’t expect to go from single to loving relationship in 24 hours.
So many people want to go from 0-60 instantly, and it doesn’t happen like that.
I had this amazing “Dear David” email the other day, and I had to share it with you.
It’s so inspiring and I think you’ll all benefit from reading it.
The whole thing seems like a different language to me.
My goal is to gather the confidence to take that first step and start getting out there.
The second I saw it I wanted to reach out and give her a big cyber hug.
Anyway, here’s what she had to say followed by my response… I’ve been out the dating arena for 30 years now, so I can’t even begin to tell you everything I need to learn.
I’m much too young to spend the rest of my days on my own.The key here for Joyce is to take that first difficult step.The first step is the hardest and the one that feels the most “dangerous.” The first step is just about becoming comfortable with yourself and your sexuality. It’s about learning how to flirt, smile, and communicate with men again. The next step is to figure out what you want in a man and in a relationship. You can’t attract the right kind of men into your life when you’re not certain what “right” actually means to you. You now have a better idea what you’re looking for.You have to learn to face rejection and not let it worry you. That’s why it’s important you start dating so you can start to see what you find attractive and what you don’t. This is a really important step, so no skirting around it. Now you need to take your time and not jump into anything too quickly. It’s all exciting and you want to play with everything you see. We should all go through this process, but many aren’t brave enough to jump in.I want to be unstoppable in my search for a fun, fulfilling, and loving relationship with a great guy.